CONSEQUENCES
OF STRESS ON
CHILD
DEVELOPMENT
When I was four years old, there was an outbreak of the swine
flu, which led to a mass immunization program. The vaccine was associated with
numerous reports of the Guillain-Barré Syndrome, which is a rare disorder in which your
body's immune system attacks your nerves. In 1976, the CDC released
that people who got the vaccination did have an increased risk of contracting
the Guillain-Barre syndrome was “approximately one additional case of GBS for
every 100,000 people who got the swine flu vaccine.” (Eschner, 2017).
Unfortunately, my mother was one of the 1 in 100,000 affected by the swine flu
vaccination. For thirty-four years, she battled with effects until
her passing in 2010. When we lived in Wyoming, my parents were
socially active in the community and had a close group of friends. After
my mom fell ill, we moved to Texas and left behind their social support system. My
parents did not develop a new social group of friends. Our family
life revolved around my mother’s medical needs and multiple stays in the
hospital. Christian (2006) recommended an educator create a
classroom climate of safety and positive feedback. I recall an
incident during first grade that left a lasting impact on me. After
a long night of helping care for my mom, I shared with a classmate that my mom
had diarrhea. The student told others, which led to multiple
students giggling and making fun of the word. When my teacher heard
that I used the word diarrhea and miss understood the context. I was
immediately taken to her office, given a spanking, and told that diarrhea was
not an appropriate topic for a first-grader. That was my first and
last spanking at school. It was, also, the last time I shared my
family life with classmates. I learned that what happened at home,
stayed at home. To this day, I prefer to keep my personal life,
personal.
Since I was the youngest and the one at home the
most, I took on the role of caregiver. Even though my dad was the primary
caregiver for the family, it became my self-assigned duty to help care for my
mom so that my dad was not always burdened by her needs. Whenever my mom
needed help she would call for my dad, so I learned to step up and offer to
take care of her needs, which ranged from fixing her another cup of hot tea,
getting her a blanket, helping in and out of her wheelchair, to even helping
her go to the bathroom. This continued even after I graduated, moved
away, and started my own family. According to Christian (2006), family
roles can be carried over to work, school, and social settings. This has
proven true for me in so many ways, my high school friends gave me the nickname
of Mother Hubbard because of my mothering tendencies during social
gatherings. In my work as special education teacher, I was able to devote
my time and energy to caring for the needs of children with disabilities.
When asked to describe me, my coworkers would say that I am nurturing.
References:
Eschner, K.
(2017). The Long Shadow of the 1976 Swine Flue Vaccine ‘Fiasco’. Retrieved
June 1, 2018 from https://smithsonianmag.com/smart-news/long-shadow-1976-swine-flue-vaccine-fiasco-180961994/
Garris
Christian, L. (2006). Understanding families: Applying family systems theory to
early childhood practice. Young Children, 61(1), 12-20.
In South
Africa, there are many children who are growing up caring for relatives with
HIV and Aids. Approximately 40% of
kids in Aids-sick homes are missing or have dropped out of school, compared to
22% in homes affected by other illnesses, and 5% in healthy homes. "Almost
a third of the young carers – sometimes as young as eight – report carrying out
intimate care, such as washing sick people, helping them go to the toilet and
cleaning their wounds" (Tobin, 2010). "Children are also
affected by HIV through the loss of family members. In South Africa more than 2
million children have been orphaned by HIV and AIDS" (Avert, 2018).
References:
HIV and
AIDS in South Africa. (2018). Retrieved from
https://www.avert.org/professionals/hiv-around-world/sub-saharan-africa/south-africa
Tobin, L.
(2010). South Africa's children caring for parents with Aids. Retrieved
June 1, 2018 from hpps://www.theguardian.com/education/2010/jun/22/hiv-aids-child-carers-south-africa

Taking over household chores, looking after siblings and learning to think of others' feelings are healthy steps toward growing up. Children that are pushed into new responsibilities become stronger adults.
ReplyDeleteThis was an 'AWESOME" blog, I had to reread it twice and it was so encouraging, and it encourage us that no matter what we should not give up.
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ReplyDeleteYour story is so touching and inspirational. The role of caregiver is an natural calling for you because you took on the role at such a young age. It is commendable that you helped your dad take care of your mother with special needs and it is commendable that you continue to assist those with special needs as an educator. Keep up the great work!
By stepping in the role to help take care of your mother at an early age did it stress you out. I know when I did it for my mother it took a big toll on me. I was 47 moved to a new city, had to start a new job sometimes I found my self feeling depress, no friends. Even though my other sibblings help out it just seems like a lot but if I had to do it all over agagin I would for my mom.
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